Write before I lose the thought...

Do I really want to be with someone I have to assure over and over of their worth and they are so unhealthy that they can only think of themselves in situations where it isn't even about him? Feed his ego? You can say you're sorry but if I am the one down and you up and I have to make you feel good about you, doesn't that feel off? Is that someone I want to be with? Someone who knows how hard it is but wants to keep going to feed their ego and self-esteem because it is lacking? No, I just hope I remember this.

Want

It's been a long time since I have wanted something as much as I want it right now. In fact, I would say that it has been almost 2 years. But as I find myself praying for it, I also remember that last time I prayed for something this much and didn't get it, it was one of the hardest things for me to overcome. I was upset with Heavenly Father. I was heartbroken. I don't want to repeat that. I hope I won't and don't think I will, but I can't predict the future. I just have this feeling that even though I want this so much, it doesn't seem like it is going to happen. That hurts pretty deep. It's a loss. I am not upset, just sad today. Yesterday my heart wasn't heavy and I was so grateful for that. Today is a different story, it hasn't felt this heavy in years. But logically, I know that even though this may be really hard in the upcoming month, I do believe somehow it will be for my ultimate good. I never believed that until I went through everything I did with Ian. I honestly never believed I was going to feel good again. But I did and I have had deep feelings for men since. I am beyond grateful that it never worked out with Ian. So if I don't get what I want this time, it will all be okay soon enough.